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When it comes to flirting by text, there are a lot of ways to do it. You can send a funny meme, start a conversation with a clever pun, or even just send a picture of yourself looking cute. But why do I personally like to send my boyfriend selfies? Well, first of all, it’s a great way to keep him thinking about me when we’re not together.

But beyond that, sending selfies is also a fun way to be playful and flirtatious with each other. We can come up with little games or challenges to see who can take the cutest picture, and it’s always enjoyable to see what kind of silly faces he makes in response to my own. 

Texting makes things fun and flirty

There’s something about the process of taking and sending a selfie that just feels intimate. It’s like we’re sharing a little secret moment together, even if we’re miles apart. So next time you’re feeling flirtatious, why not try sending your partner a selfie? I guarantee they’ll appreciate it!

And one more tip – make sure your texts are positive and playful! No one wants to be on the receiving end of a passive-aggressive message, so avoid being negative or sarcastic in your flirting. Keep things light and fun, and you’ll be sure to score some major points with your partner.

How to take the perfect selfie for flirting purposes

First of all, make sure you’re in a good mood- no one wants to see a grumpy face! Second, find a flattering angle- nobody looks good from directly above. Third, use some fun filters to add some extra personality to your photo. And fourth, don’t take it too seriously- remember that this is all just for fun!

Keep your texts short and sweet, but make sure they still get the point across

When it comes to flirting by text, less is definitely more. Keep your messages short and to the point, but make sure they’re still flirty and fun. No one wants to read a novel-length message, so save the long stories for another time.

Examples of texts that will get your partner’s attention

  • Hey, I was just thinking about you and wanted to say hi!
  • I had a dream about us last night…
  • You looked so cute in your last photo, I just had to text you!
  • I challenge you to a selfie battle- who can take the cutest pic?
  • What are you up to tonight? I wish I could be there with you…
  • I’m starting to think you’re the most beautiful person I’ve ever seen.

And that’s all there is to it! Flirting by text doesn’t have to be complicated. Just relax, be yourself, and have fun with it!